Friday, June 3, 2016

Holiness Part 1

So I was at another sale yesterday and picked up a book called "the Pursiut of Holiness" by Jerry Bridges. I've got a real problem when it comes to books.....particularly cheap ones. Anyway, I got this and began reading it on the way home in the van as my husband drove.

I've made it about half way through the book. The theme is holiness and how we as Christians slack in doing our part to be holy.

All over the Bible we are commanded things by God......
Love the Lord with all our heart, mind, soul, strength.
Obey his commands.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
Be holy because He is holy.

What is holiness? Well....from what I gather is to be "set apart". We are to be set apart from the world in how we live, act, speak, etc. We aren't to be conformed to the likeness or image of our surroundings if we are to be holy, as God is holy. According to the author of this book, "to be holy is to be morally blameless". It is to be separated from the ways of this world and living in a way that lines up with the Bible only. God himself is holy and because he is holy we need to be as well.

The reason we as Christians have a hard time living holy is because we are concerned with sin being focused on self instead of God. What I mean is we tend to look at our sins as not only separating us from God, but we want victory over them. Victory over a sin is making the sin struggle about us and not about obedience to God. When we become more concerned about victory over our sin and not about how God is grieved when we sin, that's where the problem lies. We get prideful and again make our life, including our sin patterns, about us and not about how we are hurting our God. This doesn't
mean we can't have victory over our sin, but it does mean we have to learn to be obedient to God
despite our sin nature. Choosing obedience is a daily choice we have to make. We have to acknowledge our sin and realize we are still sinners and will continue to sin until we are in eternity with our savior.

We tend to look at sin in terms of "big or small"....prison time for it or not...or.....little white lies don't hurt anyone. Thing is our sin when God sees it is offensive and there are no "degrees" of sin to him. It's all the same. He cannot and will not overlook sin in our life. To be holy is to realize we sin and to realize also we cannot ever become holy without our God. We cannot take care of our sin problem on our own. We cannot serve a holy God or live Him properly with sin in the way. He doesn't tempt us.

Once we come to Christ, the Bible tells us, the old has gone and the new has come. This means the old nature we have to sin and enjoy it and live in it, is gone. Our new nature in Jesus is taking over our life through the Holy Spirit. This does not mean we will never sin again, it means we
acknowledge we are sinners in need of restoration and repentance of the sin that separates us from
our father. We are no longer known by our sinful lifestyle, but our new life in Jesus. However, this sinful nature we were all born with never goes away.....it's just not powerful in our life as it used to be. So......Ive read before and shared before that we all have that one sin we just can't seem to get away from or have victory over. We all struggle with sin in general, but that one this just keeps coming back over and over. We are not tempered by God.....we are tempted by our own flesh. And at that moment we have a choice. To follow our temptation and give in to the sin, or to fight and say "no". Back when I was a kid that was a big slogan in the 1980s for drug use......"just say no". We got told this so often in school that I'm sure it's imbetted in every 40+ year old still today. But this applies to any temptation we get hammered with. We have a choice and we sin because we want to. No ifs, and, or buts about it....we sin because we choose to.

The author of this book has a great point....."indwelling sin works largely through our desires". Meaning our desires stem from our deceitful hearts. Our hearts get us into trouble more times than
they should, but we allow them. I know I am constantly doing things I don't want to do. My heart
takes over and I mess up and fall.
Another great point by the author...."the next time you face one of your typical temptations, watch for the struggle between your desire and your reason. If you give in to temptations, it will be because desire has overcome reason in the struggle to influence your will."

We need to pray for holiness......be obedient to God......ask Him for help......confess and repent when we fall into our temptations if we choose to let them have their way. This does not mean we can do what we want when we want to. Obedience is key. We can't know what's expected of us if we never open His word. Jesus came and won so we Can be made right with a holy God.

I'm only half way though this little book, but it's jam packed with great wisdom. I'll continue with the rest of it as I keep reading.

One thing to add in.....I am comforted to know I am not alone in how sin affects me or how it doesn't
have to control me. The author and Gods word  makes it clear that none of us are exempt from temptations or have an excuse not to live a holy life.


7 comments:

  1. Great post....

    I struggle with sin all the time. I wish I could be more holy. I know that's what God wants, but I fail more often than I want to. As you put it sometimes they are what I consider small and sometimes not so small. But, Pastor Ben said in one of his sermons that all sin is equal in God's eyes. Whether it is what we call small ( eating an extra slice of pizza when we are full ), or big sin ( not loving our neighbor or thinking impure thoughts ),it's unholy to God. I want so badly to be Holy but I just can't get there. I feel ashamed when I sin. I pray and ask for forgiveness as well.

    Here is what I feel sometimes. I want to see God. I want to be reborn in a state of holiness. I want so badly to Holy, so that I can be in his kingdom. I would love to be what God expects me to be. I hate letting him down. I have prayed to be better for him and will keep praying, because I want to be with him.

    Here is something I do at times when I am tempted. I say the Lord's prayer as Jesus tells us to. I put special emphasis on ( Lead me not into temptation but deliver me from the evil one ). It does help, so maybe try it when you feel tempted as well and I will try to remember that God is grieved when I sin. Maybe the combination will help both of us and all you read this post.

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  2. One thing to remember is that you don't need to feel shame for your sin. 1 john 1:9 has all that covered. so if you've repented, then the shame you feel is NOT from God. We should feel conviction which leads to repentance, but once forgiven, the shame then is only from Satan, and we don't need to listen to him.

    Another thing, being holy takes time. We cannot be holy overnight. We cannot undo all the "habits" and choices we made all our life all at once. I'm convinced that the reason it bothers you about being holy is because you are a true child of God and it hurts you to be hurting Him through the sins you commit. That is an awesome place to be!!! You want to please God above all else and that is wonderful.

    I like your line about the Lord's prayer. yes i would be smart to remember this when I am tempted. Please don't be so hard on yourself. God loves you and saved you despite our sin nature that he already knew we had/have. What an amazing loving God we have.

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  3. You mention Satan. I sometimes forget that he is all around and that he will try anything to keep us from becoming more Holy.

    I do try to please God. I am grateful for the things he has given me and I owe him the respect he deserves. But, again I know I'm not the best at respecting him all the time. However, by doing things like praying and becoming involved in things like helping at the church or even blogging with you and other Christians. It helps to keep me from sinning.

    As for the Lord's prayer. I like saying it. Jesus commands us to pray like that and it makes me feel I little more connected to him ( Jesus ) when I say it and that is a great feeling.

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  4. Well....I took your advice and am going to share this and the other part at the meeting this week. Pastor already read it on here and said I'll be good to share it. I really appreciated you input.

    As far as satan goes.....I've noticed In my own life that since I became a Christian, he agitates me more than before. What I mean is.....I feel like he's waiting for me to slip up and he wants my communion with Jesus to be messed up. Which is always his goal. But one thing I've asked about is that he can only do things to us within the boundaries our God has set for him. Remember God has full control of all.....including what is allowed to be done to us.

    I appreciated your conversation today about the Lord's Prayer and how you make it your own. I'm going to remember that.

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  5. Good. I think the will like it as well.

    I like to say the Lord's prayer. After I'm done saying it I usually go into other things or people I need to pray for. Karen and I are going to start a prayer wall, sort of like in the movie the war room. Hopefully it will help us with remembering people and things we need to pray for.

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  6. That's awesome about the prayer wall! I haven't seen the movie yet but our women's group will watch it together in July. I've heard it's powerful.

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  7. I liked it... Karen is looking forward to it...

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